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The IJL difference

The Face-to-Face experience: As an IJL client, we guarantee you will go out on dates. Face to face dates. Real dates. Because that’s the only way to tell if there’s chemistry.

Guys dating girls like casual sex are seen as easy pickings by some. This is due to our evolved social conditioning. Society tells us that girls like casual sex because it’s fun, and we’re told by our parents that “dating” is supposed to be long term. There is also this idea that girls only go out with guys if they have a strong sense of humor or intelligence – both of which are negativities. The problem with this line of thinking is that it makes us not take girls seriously, which prevents us from developing long-term dating relationships. If you’re a guy who is starting to date in hookup sites, these are some points you should consider before giving up on dating entirely.

Personalized Hand-Selected Matches. Our IJL certified matchmakers create a dating experience personalized just for you.

High Touch Service. From match selection to restaurant reservations. We are your dating concierge. Spend your time dating instead of searching.

Private. No online dating profile for the world to see.

27 Years’ Experience working with gay single professionals. It’s Just Lunch is the #1 Personalized Matchmaking service in the world!

Our professional matchmakers love what they do- and that’s what makes them extraordinary. We understand how important discovering chemistry is to our clients. Our goal is to get you face to face with someone you can really click with and let you take it from there. And while online dating sites leave the work to you, the It’s Just Lunch Seattle matchmaking team not only selects your matches but also coordinates the entire date so you can focus on the fun parts of dating!

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Our Pledge to You, Our Client:

We treat you as a person, not a website profile.

It’s Just Lunch recognizes that each of our clients is unique, and that their attributes, experiences and life goals shape the type of relationship they are looking for. As such, we are committed to working with our clients to understand their needs and provide a successful, fun and productive IJL Dating Experience.

The It’s Just Lunch team is dedicated to you, and this is our commitment to our clients:

  • To guide you through the It’s Just Lunch dating process so you can have a fun, successful dating experience.
  • To understand your relationship goals and work closely with you to achieve them.
  • To work with you to identify and provide you with the types of matches that could be right for you. We will honor your preferences for age, religion, and parental status as we personally select your matches.
  • To only take on those clients we believe we can successfully match-we don’t take everyone on as an It’s Just Lunch Client.
  • To quickly respond to your questions and needs.
  • To communicate with you in an open, honest way.
  • To treat you in a caring, sincere, empathetic, and professional manner.
  • To maintain the highest ethical, personal and professional standards possible and follow all applicable laws.

We will be measured both personally and professionally by our dedication to providing each and every one of our clients with the best gay matchmaking service possible!

In short, if we take you on as a client, we guarantee you will go out on dates!

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